You need a checklist: What happens when life goes sideways? What frequently happens is a sort of soul-sucking shit-storm snow-ball effect begins and a lot of other things go wrong, too. This is not good timing. Or you have to make hard, complicated decisions where you are at your worst. Also very not good. Knowing where to start, or what to do next, is sometimes all we need to get one thing done or feel a little less anxious. … More Checklist: Getting Started